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Shortcuts for Happy Relationships

Relationships are a high contact sport! After years of research and experimentation, our incredible marriage uses lots of hacks. Some of the highlights are: In an emotionally heightened moment, I ask myself “Would I rather be right or happy?” Generally the answer is...
The Key to Every Problem

The Key to Every Problem

I have found that anytime I am upset with my husband (or anyone else for that matter), I assume the position of TAKER instead of GIVER. Here’s what this looks like: if I am upset with Vj, it is because I feel like I am not getting my way or what my ego thinks I...